Signs your friends take advantage of your kindness

New Delhi: In a world where all we find is ruthless and mean people it is good to have a good heart and show some kindness. No matter how angry a person is he/she should try to remain kind. Naturally, it is not possible to remain kind in all situations there are times when you lose your temperament and things go wrong.

Being kind at times is actually irritating because people consider you weak and take advantage of it. Of course, everyone is not blessed with a heart like yours.

Here are the signs which clearly tell that you’re being taken advantage of in friendship :

1. They don’t listen to you, but always expect you to listen to them: We all have a few friends in the name of snakes who always come to us in their hard times but when you need a shoulder they back off by making any stupid excuse.

2. They only want to hang around with you when it’s convenient for them: Your so-called friends make plans as per their schedule and never ask you when you are free. 

3. They only call or text you when they need favours from you: It is okay to call a friend in a trouble but if the person is calling or texting just for the favours, then it is the biggest red flag of the friendship.

4. They are just curious about your personal life: Genuine friends don’t interfere much in their mate’s life because they know their boundaries.  On the other hand, people who want to take advantage of you just are eager to know gossip related to your life.

5. They are using it to get ahead: Sad part is many people use another person just for the sake of earning fame or reaching any position.