Why Coworkers Spread Rumours And Gossip About You…Reasons Here
Office Gossip and Rumors: Here is why your co-worker's are doing this
New Delhi: Have you been working in an environment where you get to hear something new and disgusting thing about yourself? If Yes, then that is anything but normal.
Also, if you are thinking which this happens when you don’t really cares about anyone else, but others are so much interested in not minding their business but instead gossip and spread rumours about you.
The main reason and motive behind doing this is nothing but to ruin the other person’s reputations.
Usually, this is done in the absence of the individual, and is usually spread behind a person’s back which can sometime turn out to be harmful.
Why Coworkers Spread Rumours And Gossip About You…Reasons Here
To impress others
Your collages, sitting next to you, eating with you can also turn out to be the bitter and the most un-liked person and you need to stay away as these people will back bite and spread rumours or engage in gossip to impress or fit in a circle to feel special.
Sometimes to feel better
There are very high chances that when a person is not liked or appreciated, they feel bad about themselves and to get relief from this they play victim card and will target other people so that they can feel better about themselves.
To get attention
This is quite a regular practice, when someone wants to fit in others shoe or wants to be looked upon like others they tend to spread rumours, gossip and talk behind their back, they believe this will help them get attention and become popular.
To Gain power
When someone has just started climbing the ladder, they sometimes accomplish that by diminishing the status of someone else they can reach to the top. So they land up spreading rumours or gossiping for social status.
To Get Revenge
These days people are very much envious and jealous of others status, success money so they believe they can use their gossip to hurt the individual. One of the most common reason is when someone feels they should hurt the other individual they use gossip and rumors as a tool to get back at someone who they feel deserves to be hurt. All they get is satisfaction.